Saying men can be uncles is a lot like saying "sure women make 90 cents on the dollar, but they can be mothers!" Which is to say, it's not exactly wrong, but it's also not really addressing the problem.
And I don't think solving the non-sex side of things fixes incel culture. that culture is clearly trying to fill that hole, coming up wi…
Saying men can be uncles is a lot like saying "sure women make 90 cents on the dollar, but they can be mothers!" Which is to say, it's not exactly wrong, but it's also not really addressing the problem.
And I don't think solving the non-sex side of things fixes incel culture. that culture is clearly trying to fill that hole, coming up with alterative ways to get the emotional needs met that you're talking about. It comes out toxic because everyone has the same gripe, so the negativity is amplified.
Saying men can be uncles is a lot like saying "sure women make 90 cents on the dollar, but they can be mothers!" Which is to say, it's not exactly wrong, but it's also not really addressing the problem.
And I don't think solving the non-sex side of things fixes incel culture. that culture is clearly trying to fill that hole, coming up with alterative ways to get the emotional needs met that you're talking about. It comes out toxic because everyone has the same gripe, so the negativity is amplified.